Friday, 6 May 2011

The Any Campaign - where would you choose?

If I could be married anytime anywhere... I would get married in my parents back garden. The family home I grew up in (and even shared a cheeky snog with my H2B when we were teens!) which has so many fabulous memories. I would have spent our budget on making the garden into our very own wedding ceremony venue. It would have been perfect. But of course in the UK we can't just get married anywhere. Well not yet anyway!


Penny from Tino&Pip Photography has launched a campaign to try and change the laws in the UK, which could see future brides and grooms being able to marry in their very own special place.

Here's what Penny has to say:

Hi there! I’m Penny, from duo wedding photographers Tino&Pip Photography. We are always on the hunt for fabulous wedding inspiration and love to share our favourite wedding blog treasures. After all, we all secretly daydream about our big day; well I certainly love to let my imagination run away with me…

Surrounded by woodland and a blanket of bluebells, my guests await my arrival, seated on beautiful mismatched painted chairs, adorned with ivory paper flowers. From a few of the closest trees hang huge vintage mirrors in ornate frames, bouncing the golden hour light around us. Ivory petals lay out my path, lifted occasionally by a gentle breeze. Heads turn as I float up the aisle in a backless ivory silk dress with many tiny paper flowers in my hair to match my teardrop bouquet…

My dreams were shattered however when I discovered that open air weddings are not permitted in this country. The law states that a marriage ceremony venue must have a roof, be moored to its foundations, and licensed by the local registrar. There are thousands of gorgeous licensed wedding venues in the country, offering stunning scenery and experienced wedding coordinators to help you plan your special day, and many would love to offer their own beautiful grounds for outdoor ceremonies, especially as they can hold the reception too, and also offer inside space in case the typical English weather rears its head! We live in a beautiful country with breathtaking beaches, ruined castles, parks, mountains and woodland. Why not celebrate this and incorporate these spectacular landscapes into our wedding ceremonies? Perhaps you would like to be married in a venue that it sentimental you, such as your back garden or the home you grew up in. We are teased by photographs from many of these fabulously unique ceremonies on wedding blogs such as Rock ‘n Roll Bride and Wedding Chicks, as in many countries including Ireland and Scotland, it is the registrar that holds the license not the venue- a system far more suited to modern times.

Further restricting our imaginations when it comes to our wedding day, is a highly outdated law that says that weddings must take place between 8am and 6pm. This rule was drawn up when civil marriages were first introduced in 1837 and it was designed to stop people marrying the wrong partner in the dark in the days before electricity! So my dream of being married in golden hour light (just before sunset) was also quashed.

We have discovered however, that there was a Government White Paper in 2002 proposing to relax these laws, but it was put on the backburner before anything came of it. In 2005 a ‘consultation document’ was published proposing such modernisations, but as yet no timetable has been announced. The Any Campaign therefore requests your help in bringing this matter back into consideration so that we can all have the wedding of our dreams!

We need at least 1000 British signatures to present our petition to the government, but we would also love to get you thinking about what this law change would mean to you. We’d really like to feature your ideas on the blog, so if you dream of an outdoor wedding then please tell us about it, and send any images you may have of that ideal place, coz we love pretty pictures!

Please sign our petition here and spread the word!

A family garden, park, hillside, under your favourite tree? Where would you choose?

Join the inspiration conversation: If I could be married anytime, anywhere…

2 comments:

  1. Love this! We got married in our house and had the most amazing garden party in Sunny Jersey. Is was so beautiful...I really didn't know you couldn't get married where you wanted to here in the UK. Go to Jersey, its super beautiful, you can get married after 6pm at some incredible Jersey heritage locations. I am off to sign the petition now so you guys can do the same in the UK!

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  2. Ah wow! Charlie your wedding sounds amazing. You're very lucky. It doesn't make sense does it? That's why I love this campaign. I really hope it means future B2B's can get married in their own homes like you did. Thank you for signing the petition. xx

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